What is it about?
Some people seem to handle life's difficulties better than others, not by avoiding hardship, but by embracing it. This study examines a psychological attitude called amor fati (Latin for "love of one's fate"), which involves joyfully accepting everything that happens in one's life, both the good and the bad. We explored whether this attitude was linked to greater mature happiness and lower depression in adults, and whether feeling connected to others, or feeling lonely, might help explain those links. Using both cross-sectional data (a snapshot in time) and short-term longitudinal data (following participants over time), we found that people who scored higher in amor fati tended to report greater mature happiness and fewer depressive symptoms, and that social connection and loneliness played an important role in those relationships. These findings suggest that cultivating an embracing attitude toward one's life circumstances may support psychological well-being partly by shaping how connected or isolated we feel.
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Why is it important?
Depression and loneliness are among the most pressing mental health challenges of our time, yet most psychological interventions focus on reducing negative states rather than cultivating positive existential attitudes. This study is among the first to examine amor fati as a strength-based variable that may protect against both depression and loneliness simultaneously. By combining cross-sectional and longitudinal designs, it moves beyond simple correlational snapshots to provide more temporally grounded evidence. The findings open the door to interventions that promote psychological flourishing by fostering an accepting, life-affirming orientation, one rooted not in avoidance or forced positivity, but in genuine engagement with the full range of human experience.
Perspectives
As researchers interested in positive psychology and existential well-being, we are struck by how often people equate psychological health with the absence of suffering, rather than with how one relates to it. The concept of amor fati, to love one's fate, captured our attention precisely because it reframes hardship not as something to be eliminated, but as something that can be meaningfully embraced. This paper grew from our cross-cultural collaboration and our shared conviction that variables like amor fati deserve rigorous empirical scrutiny. We hope this work encourages both researchers and practitioners to look beyond symptom reduction and take seriously the role of existential attitudes in human flourishing.
Nicolás Sánchez-Álvarez
University of Malaga
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This page is a summary of: Examining the role of connection and loneliness in understanding how amor fati is associated with mature happiness and depression: Evidence from cross-sectional and short-term longitudinal data., The Humanistic Psychologist, May 2026, American Psychological Association (APA),
DOI: 10.1037/hum0000427.
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