How parents view their children's inner worlds: Effects on parenting across cultures

What is it about?

When parents recognize that their children have their own thoughts, feelings, and intentions ("mind-mindedness"), it can shape how they interact with their children. Family stress, such as financial difficulties, mental health struggles, or major life events, also affects parenting. But do these patterns hold true across different cultures? We studied 832 parent-child pairs in England, Hong Kong, and mainland China. Parents and their 5-year old children were video-recorded doing a drawing activity together at home. We looked at how parents behaved, and we measured their mind-mindedness by analyzing parental descriptions of their children. We also assessed family stress levels, including socioeconomic challenges, parental mental health, negative life events, and COVID-19-related pressures. Across all three sites, we found that parents who were better at recognizing their children's inner mental lives showed more positive parenting behaviors. We also found that families experiencing more stress showed less positive parenting. These patterns were remarkably consistent across cultures. We also tested whether mind-mindedness might protect parenting quality during stressful times. The results were mixed: in mainland China, parents with high mind-mindedness showed less negativity even when facing family adversity, but this effect wasn't seen in England or Hong Kong. Our findings reveal both universal patterns in how parents think about and interact with their children, while also highlighting important cultural differences. This suggests that while some aspects of parenting are similar worldwide, the specific ways they play out depend on cultural context.

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Photo by Khanh Do on Unsplash