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  1. Stop avoiding hard conversations: Discussing relationship concerns is more positive than you think.
  2. Let it go: How exaggerating the reputational costs of revealing negative information encourages secrecy in relationships.
  3. Overly shallow?: Miscalibrated expectations create a barrier to deeper conversation.
  4. Hello, stranger? Pleasant conversations are preceded by concerns about starting one.
  5. Insufficiently complimentary?: Underestimating the positive impact of compliments creates a barrier to expressing them.
  6. It’s surprisingly nice to hear you: Misunderstanding the impact of communication media can lead to suboptimal choices of how to connect with others.
  7. Demeaning: Dehumanizing others by minimizing the importance of their psychological needs.
  8. Undervaluing Gratitude: Expressers Misunderstand the Consequences of Showing Appreciation